The Myth that All Kinksters Must Be Open-Minded (whatever that means)

I'm sick and tired of people pulling that same line out of their asses.

I heard it when I told people I am happily monogamous and that I'm not interested in poly relationships--"well, you're not open minded enough, try it and you'll love it!" What? O.o

When I explain my own morality as someone who has cheated and regrets it when another kinksters admits to cheating (practically bragging and trying to justify themselves).--"So and so is totally cheating on their vanilla spouse and we totally need to support them and if you don't you're narrow minded and insulting kink!" What the flying fuck? Since when is cheating even a kink? I mean, seriously? You're trying to make it a fetish? >.<

Whenever someone (like me or anyone else) expresses a differing opinion than one in support of the OP in a thread on Fetlife--"Well, you need to be more open-minded! Your opinion is rude and wrong and I don't like you! Here I personally attack your character because you won't agree with me!"

Sometimes I wonder how many kinksters actually learned anything in high school besides drama. Get the fuck over yourselves people who think that way. We are human first, kinksters second. >.< If you'd rather live in your idealized fantasy world, go right ahead. But I'd rather be here, happy, and not a fucking hypocrite.